Sunday, September 04, 2005

2 Months

It's been two months since Marlon's sudden passing and I surprised myself at just how strong I was during this terrible time. But in the past week I've been thinking of him so much and certain things I see or hear just set me off into tears. I'm not quite sure how it got there, but Ivy's (my daughter) pacifier was on top of his urn- and there was no way she could've reached up there. That made me remember the time when I asked Marlon to take away the pacifier she had in her mouth and as quickly as he did that, she had a back-up in her other hand and popped it in. Marlon had found this hilarious and said that Ivy showed him you have to be prepared. So I think that perhaps this was Marlon's way of letting me know he was okay. I don't know about everyone else, but I've been missing him more than ever this past week. God Bless you Marlon.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I miss Marlon terribly. So many times, I still, even now, find myself about to call him to discuss something with him, and then I remember...

Marlon always had an ear to lend, for those who really needed to talk, or discuss what was going on in their lives. As much as I knew him, I never saw the depth of his compassion run shallow. He sincerely cared, and that is indeed a rare thing nowadays. I am proud to call you my best friend.

Anonymous said...

Dear Amy,
I'm so sorry to learn of Marlon's passing, though I had no knowledge of his existence until today. Though I never knew him, a post he made on a cycling website in Dec. '97 has helped me today. He spoke of a rare yellow bicycle that he found at a goodwill store. I have the identical blue bicycle, and as far as I know, there are no others. Throughout the entire internet, Marolon's post was the only refference to a Clara Bicycle. I know this is very wishful thinking, but have you seen his Yellow Clara Italian Bike, or know anything about it or who might know about it? I am trying to learn more about my own bike, and this is the first lead I've come accross. Take care of your yourself and your family, and never despair.

-Daniel Idziak, idziakd@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Incase nobody else was aware or previously mentioned it, I was just watching a video online and found this speaking clip of Marlon in a bit about Youth Cycle Recycle (now neighborhood bike works).. http://www.greenworks.tv/tvshow/ind_families/recycling_h.htm

It's a two minute clip (or is supposed to be) that is part of this longer show... http://www.greenworks.tv/tvshow/ind_families/recycling.htm
(the shorter clip SHOULD have only included the bike part, but didn't..) You can probably get the video on vhs from greenworks.tv/greentreks.org if you don't already have it, and I might bet they might have leftovers from the cutting room floor laying around somewhere, too.